Anyone can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a dad...

So, I am a member of a few mommy groups on Facebook. Very often (too often IMO) I see women posting about how much their significant other/babies father is, well, pretty much useless. They always say how they are stuck doing everything - from cooking, to changing the babies diaper, to cleaning the whole house (even cleaning up after the man) while the man just sits back and relaxes. They often complain how when the baby is crying the father can't be bothered to check on the baby.

I honestly do not know how women can deal with that shit and let their man get away with it. Honestly, I would say fuck it and not do anything other than take care of my baby. I am not cooking you dinner, I am not washing your dishes, I am not ironing your clothes (personally, I never iron), etc. If you cannot be bothered for one second to take care of YOUR child, then I am not obligated to take care of you.

It is crazy how we don't know how a man will be with their kids until the time actually comes... Some men you would think would be great dads, but when the times comes, they cannot step up to the plate. Other men you would assume might be shitty fathers (for lack of better wording) but end up being amazing dads!

Basically, what I am trying to say is, just because a man is successful, married and w.e doesn't mean he will be a good dad, and the same goes for the opposite.

When I was pregnant, I honestly did not know how Fabian would be. I assumed that he would be a rather good father, but I was always thinking that his love for video games would cause him to ignore his daughter because he'd rather play them (this is what a lot of the mothers in my groups tend to complain about)... Much to my surprise, that is not the case! I guess daddy's little princess stole his heart and his attention. I am so thankful that he is a great dad to our daughter, and that I do not have to be one of those women bitching (and they are rightfully doing so) about my useless, deadbeat of a baby daddy.

True love